1.He is straightforward
他很直接
He isn’t afraid to tell you “how it is”, and at first, this is a hard quality to come to terms with. A straightforward and honest man wants to really know what’s wrong because he wants to help. Unfortunately with this comes “tough love”, because you are going to hear things that you really don’t want to here. But, in the long run its best to here it head on and deal with it.
他不怕告訴你真實情況，首先，是一種很難得的品質(zhì)。直接老實的男人想要知道到底是哪里出了問題因為他想要得到幫助。不幸的得到這樣“艱難的愛”，因為你會聽到你不愿意聽見的。但是就長期而言這樣是很好的，也便于你應(yīng)對。
2.He can laugh at himself
你會自嘲
Life is tough, and it’s even tougher if you take it too seriously. That’s why it’s important to have a co-pilot who isn’t afraid to laugh at himself when things go to hell.
生活并不容易，如果你對此更嚴肅那就更不容易。這也是在事情變得很糟糕的時候有一個不怕自嘲的人共同面對很重要的原因。
3.He is generous with his time
他愿意花時間
It is a cliché, but we women like things—flowers, shoes, jewellery, chocolate. So we expect our man to give us these things and If he doesn’t deliver, he obviously doesn’t care about our relationship. A man who will give you his attention is more precious than that Coach bag you’ve been coveting. A man who values time and memories over material things is priceless.
這可能會有些迂腐，但是我們女人喜歡---鮮花，鞋子，首飾，巧克力等東西。所以我們都希望有人可以給我們這些東西，如果他沒送那就是不在意我們的關(guān)系。一個愿意關(guān)注你的男人比包包更寶貴。一個看重時間和回憶的男人比這些物質(zhì)更無價。
4.He is compassionate
他富有同情心
One of the most powerful emotions is empathy, or the ability to comprehend and embrace someone else’s trials . A man who can understand your sorrow but also take joy in your joy is beautiful. He always tries to put himself in other people’s shoes so he can see the world as it is.
一種很有能力的情感就是同情心或者理解包容別人缺點的能力。一個能明白你的悲傷、懂得你快樂的男人才更好。他總是站在別人的角度思考問題這樣他才能看見整個世界。
5.He learns from his mistakes
他能從錯誤中吸取教訓(xùn)
By default, we humans are all imperfect creatures and make more mistakes than we will ever admit. Given that, the best quality a man can possess is the ability to say “I was wrong” and to move forward to fix it. A good man will admit he is wrong, a great man will admit he is wrong and will become a better person because of it.
我們?nèi)祟愂遣煌昝赖纳?，我們都會犯錯，往往犯下的錯比我們認識到的錯誤要多。即使是那樣，一個男人最好的品質(zhì)就是具備那種承認錯誤并積極改正的能力。一個好男人會承認自己的錯誤，一個優(yōu)秀男人會承認他的錯誤并因此而變成一個更好的人。
