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          做個有“情”的女人

                      

                                                            《男女本色》一書的作者說,“女人最喜歡兩樣東西:情和錢”我不反對。

                                                                              由于女人是感情的動物,一生為情所困,很難放下。

                                                                                       于是,才有了“癡情女子負心漢”一說,

                                                                                           有了從古至今連綿不絕的殉情女子。

                                                                                                   問題是,對于女人來說,

                                                                                                   情和錢哪個更為重要呢?

                                                                                       也許對于拜金主義的人來說,錢更重要。

                                                                                              有了錢,她可以買高級化妝品;

                                                                                                有了錢,她可以穿高級時裝;

                                                                                          有了錢,她可以住洋房、開高級轎車……

                                                                                          總之,有了錢,她可以過奢華的生活。

                                                                                       而對于那些癡情女子來說,錢是身外之物,

                                                                                                     “情”才是最高奢求,

                                                                                    包括:激情、愛情、親情、溫情、友情和恩情……

                                                                                             總之,情是人世間最難說清楚的事,

                                                                                                      對癡情女子尤其重要,

                                                                                     她們對“情”的困惑與執(zhí)著幾乎讓人難以理解。


           


                                                                                             先說說“激情、愛情和親情”。

                                                                             這三種“情”是男女生理、心理兼體力活動的產物,

                                                                                        并且這三種情感之間呈遞進關系。

            

           

                                                              激情是陌生男女之間比較容易迸發(fā)出的一種物理反應兼化學反應的產物。

                                                                                            激情是人類最可貴的情感之一,

                                                                                                它是情欲和愛情的原動力,

                                                                                                     更是快樂的催化劑。

                                                                                                 激情可能會發(fā)展成愛情,

                                                                                                   也可能很快煙消云散,

                                                                                                      來得快也去得急。

                                                                                                 總之激情是很玄的東西,

                                                                                                   激情最終會趨于平淡,

                                                                                              千萬不要指望靠激情過日子,

                                                                                         更不要以激情缺失為借口毀掉婚姻。


           


                                                                 與激情相比,愛情少了許多激情迸發(fā)出的物理反應及化學成分,

                                                                                         而多了許多心靈和精神的成分。

                                                                                 愛情是一種感覺,比較抽象,無比浪漫。

                                                                                     愛情是青春的夢,可以是風月情濃,

                                                                                                 可以愛也可以不愛,

                                                                                        可以愛得很深也可以愛得很淡。

                                                                                            然而,愛情一旦走入婚姻,

                                                                                隨著時間的推移,愛情就會漸漸歸于從容。

                                                                                     結了婚的人,要想保持愛情的甜美,

                                                                                               是一件比較困難的事情。

                                                                             婚姻比愛情更需要彼此懂得關懷、尊重和了解。

                                                                                  婚姻是合同、是責任,比較具體、務實,

                                                                               簽約的雙方在享受權利的同時也奉獻著義務。

                                                                         那么,婚姻真的就是“愛情的墳墓”嗎?也不盡然。


           


                                                                                       真正美麗的愛情是沒有終止的,

                                                                                           婚姻不應該是愛情的終點,

                                                                                             而應該成為親情的起點。

                                                                                                在漫長的婚姻道路上,

                                                                                          當愛情升華為一種超越愛情,

                                                                                     又勝于愛情的無血緣關系的親情時,

                                                                 這種感情就會比熾烈的愛情來得更加堅定可靠、更加歷久彌新。

                                                                          所謂“少年夫妻老來伴兒”,說的就是這個道理。



                                                                                           再看看“溫情、友情和恩情”。

                                                                                  這三種“情”更多的是理性層面的情愫,

                                                                   仔細觀察它們之間也有著由淺入深、循序漸進的微妙關系。

                                                                                    溫情從字面上可以解釋為:溫柔深情。

                                                                       它包含了溫情脈脈、溫情蜜意等讓人感覺溫暖的詞匯,


                                

           

                                                                                      詮釋溫情最好的例子是母愛的溫情,

                                                                                    任何人都會為之陶醉在母親的懷抱里,

                                                                                             母愛的力量令人永生難忘。

                                                                                        所以,要想成為一個完美的女人,

                                                                                                     除去特殊情況,

                                                                                  她都應該想方設法讓自己成為一位母親。

                                                                                                   從某種意義上講,

                                                                                               溫情也算是一種親情。


                                 


                                                                                     友情則不同,友情是朋友之間的情誼,

                                                                                              它更加博大、寬闊、深沉。

                                                                                           時間可以阻隔激情、沖淡愛情,

                                                                                                   但時間扯不斷友情。

                                                                                             友情如果經(jīng)不住時間的考驗,

                                                                                           它就不是真正肝膽相照的友情,

                                                                                                  而是逢場作戲的虛情,

                                                                                                    是勾心斗角的私情。

                                                                                                         達爾文說過:

                                                                                  “談到名聲、榮譽、快樂、財富這些東西,

                                                                                           如果同友情相比,它們都是塵土。”

                                                                               然而,女人一旦成家經(jīng)常會不自覺地忽視了友情

                                                                                     在對待友情的態(tài)度上男人要比女人好得多,

                                                                                          這也是男人能成就偉業(yè)的原因之一。


                                 


                                                       提到“恩情”首先喚起我的是那首歌頌偉大領袖的歌曲《鮮紅的太陽永不落》,

                                                                                      那里有一句歌詞“您的恩情比海深……”,

                                                                                 啥也不用說了,恩情就是一種深厚的情意。

                                                                           任何人在生命的旅途中都會遇到各種各樣的恩情,

                                                                                 其中最大的就是給予你生命的父母之恩了。
                                                                                         我相信,一個有“情”的女人,

                                                                                             一定也是一個幸福的女人。

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